get over it.. he said no for a good reason, he promised his DAUGHTER that she would be the only one.. his daughter ok? can you not GET THAT THROUGH YOUR THICK HEAD!?!?!?!?!?!?! what would it be? have his DAUGHTER, that he promised to, made at him for lieing to her, or your brother, who could very well go next year. he is an awsome dad, and for you to be mad at him " i will stay mad at him until he can come" YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT YOUR YOUTH PASTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET FUCKING WELL OVER IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 HE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE HIS MIND! he promised, and i think that your brother understands that, so leave it alone.. and by the way, we need to talk